Learn to Shoot a Gun – A Skill Every Man Should Possess

Four Fundamentals to Learn to Shoot a Gun When I first joined the Army I had about as much experience shooting a gun as any other recreational shooter. The only rule to gun shooting that I needed was hitting the target and being safe about it. When I was handed my first M16A2 I thought, […]

What Not to Say During an Interview

I’ve conducted 300+ interviews over the past 10 years. During onboarding seasons I sat down with so many potential candidates who said such similar things they would often blend together. And it became obvious to me what not to say during an interview. I wasn’t looking for superstars or extreme talent. I was looking for […]

Living With No Money? Is it the Recession or is it You?

Have you ever been in these shoes? Wells Fargo balance = $0 Piggy Bank = $0 Secret stash = It’s gone! Who took it?! Living with no money is a painful situation to be in and it’s tough to get anywhere in these shoes. I don’t think any of us like being in a spot […]

Common Chest Training Mistakes

Just about every guy at the gym is trying to grow a stronger, more defined chest. Many are hitting their chest workouts 1-2 times a week but aren’t seeing the results they want. Here are some common chest training mistakes to avoid so your workouts aren’t wasted. Improper Bench Press Form Full range of motion is key. […]

Should You Care What People Think?

“I don’t care what people think.” It’s a popular notion to not give a damn and act however you want. If people’s opinions don’t have any value, I guess it’s right to not care. But if people DO matter, then we might want to listen to what they have to say. There really is no […]

How to Make Her Feel Special – Everyday | Part I

How To Make Her Feel Special is one of our all-time favorite, and most read, articles. So I decided to write a sequel that I’m sure you’ll want to read as soon as you’re done with this one: Part 2 – Loving Gestures to Make Her Feel Special. Men and women will always be different. […]

Fearless. Is That Enough?

We challenge each other to do daring feats to test our limits. This is part of experiencing life and growing up. Thankfully most of us have enough common sense to know how far to push that limit. Do we need to know when to be Fearless? When I was 8 years old I was racing […]

How To Win A Bar Fight

You want to avoid them at all costs. But if you’re caught in a bar fight, be prepared with these techniques. And come out alive.

Work and Life Balance

Caught trying to juggle the busyness of life? For all of us, at the end of each day there’s always something forgotten that needed to get done. Sometimes it slips our mind. Sometimes we over extend ourselves. Sometimes we give up our own plan to help another. We need work and life balance. Each night […]

Fear and Loathing: Fear Is A Gift-Listen To It

This is Part 2 of Fear and Loathing in La Mente. Our series on how fear can paralyze us, and how we get trapped in the mind-game of loathing ourselves for it. Checkout Part 1. Fear and courage are brothers. –Old Proverb Fear gets a bad rap. We even named our site about being fearless. […]