You have read a lot of blogs on this topic, did the research, and tried some of the techniques and more often than not crashed and burned. This is because there has been a whole industry formed around teaching men how to attract women and vice versa. There are a lot of local single women who are looking for the right guy, the key is finding the right way to approach them in order to get what you want. It can be as simple as wanting a one night stand, or a bit more complex like a meaningful relationship or even marriage, the point is there is no big secret or an elaborate plan, just a few simple steps that will get you where you want to be.
Step 1 – Be clear about what you want
Before stepping into the dating game, it is important to be honest with yourself and then with a potential partner. If you are looking just for sex, be clear about that, there are plenty of women with that same agenda on their mind. But pretending to want more and then just flipping the script on a girl is not the way to go. Another thing you need to be very sure of is the type of girl you are looking for. If you want a nice, polite girl with great manners and a steady job, you can’t expect her to be easy and down for anything. On the other hand, if the open-minded girl who prefers you buy all the drinks sparks your interest, don’t expect her to turn into a wholesome prude all of a sudden. By knowing exactly what you want, it will be easier for you to choose which woman to approach, and how to proceed from there.
Step 2 – Don’t assume anything
This is the biggest mistake everyone makes when it comes to dating and meeting new people. Assuming you can read them, know what they’re thinking and so on. Some even go so far as to get angry based only on the assumption of what the other person thinks. A clear line of communication is essential if you want to meet a woman and start up a relationship. Yes, it is a bit harder because you have to be ready for a much faster rejection, but that will only save you time and effort. And when someone rejects you before they get to know you, it isn’t personal, rather a demonstration of that person’s character. But it is also important how one takes rejection, it is essential that you take it at face value, so if it is a no, don’t assume that it might be a yes, but she is only playing a game. Why would you want someone who is playing games in your life?
Step 3 – Just say hi
A shocking new technique isn’t it? Stepping away from the screen and simply approaching a woman, why in the world would you that. What makes a ‘hi’ so special? Well, if you approach with some cheesy line or a badly executed gag, the possibility of getting just an eye-roll and a no is a lot higher. A ‘hi’ followed with a smile can go a long way to getting a woman to open up, and be more accepting of your advances. It is as simple as that, and you don’t need a whole book detailing each and every step.
You might think this guide is too easy, and there is no way it will work. But give it a shot. If you approach a woman, knowing fully well what you do and don’t want, without the need for playing games and telling stories, you might be surprised by the simplicity and honesty of her reaction.